My Life Outside the Closet

I stumbled upon some gay quotes while searching the net, I found some interesting, funny and sarcastic gay lines and an idea popped out of my head...I want these quotes on my shirts, you know, my own small way of advocating gay rights. I'll add that to my to do list before the year ends but for the meantime, here are some of the fabulous quotes I'd like to use.

When I was in the military they gave me a medal for killing two men and a discharge for loving one.  ~Epitaph of Leonard P. Matlovich, 1988

The Bible contains six admonishments to homosexuals and 362 admonishments to heterosexuals.  That doesn't mean that God doesn't love heterosexuals.  It's just that they need more supervision.  ~Lynn Lavner

You don't have to be straight to be in the military; you just have to be able to shoot straight.  ~Barry Goldwater

Why is it that, as a culture, we are more comfortable seeing two men holding guns than holding hands?  ~Ernest Gaines

If homosexuality is a disease, let's all call in queer to work:  "Hello.  Can't work today, still queer."  ~Robin Tyler

Labels?  Okay, fine.  I'm bisensual.  Heteroflexible.  And life-curious.  That about covers it.  ~Morgan Torva

The next time someone asks you, "Hey, howdja get to be a homosexual anyway?" tell them, "Homosexuals are chosen first on talent, then interview... then the swimsuit and evening gown competition pretty much gets rid of the rest of them."  ~Karen Williams

and some fabulous bumper sticker slogan too!

-My sexual orientation?  Horizontal, usually. 

-I can't even think straight. 

-Let's get one thing straight, I'm not. 

-Closets are for clothes.

 -I'm not gay but my boyfriend is.

-Equal rights are not special rights.

Whatdya think? 

The only girl that could make me go straight! promise!

Interesting Facts:
- Dream role is to play a mermaid
- Plans to take up law after highschool
- Studied at Angelicum College
- Has 8 siblings (Jasmin, Michelle, Thomas, Kate, Jamie, Louise, Emma and Jo)
- Fond of Julia Roberts
- Magic Kingdom is Anne’s first movie and favorite as well aside from Ika-13 Kapitulo
- Her first exposure was in a promotional activity of Batman and Robin, the one giving away promo items. She was only twelve years old then
- You will find in her CD rack the records of Freestyle, Destiny’s Child and The Corrs
- Kenzo and Issey Meyaki are just two of her favorite perfumes
- Track and Field and Tennis are Anne’s favorite sports. She used to play marathon back in Australia when she was in elementary.

I love her!!!

(photos taken from thedailymodel.com)

Two fabulous yet sleepless night earned me three huge pimples and I hate it as hell. I was out of town with my officemates and friends, we were supposed to have a team building that just turned out to be just an outing. I hate outings. I hate packing my things. I hate long drive. I hate getting out of usual routine. I just hate it.

Well, I have no choice but to join. Beside that I dont have a valid excuse not to go, Two of my bitch friend, who I have not seen in while, will be joining us (they're friends with my boss) and would really chop my head off if I did'nt come. So, off I went.

It was fun. Well, not the FUN that I expect but it was still fun. We laughed. We sang for 48 hours (that explains the sleepless drama! It was noise galore for 48hours). They drank non-stop(I don't drink, so I faked it, hehehe!). We played on the pool. We ate oily foods. We gossiped through the night. We did everything but sleep.

So, what I need now is tons of sleep and anything that would help me get rid of this giant pimples!

Check this out!

My bitch friends and I decided to play with our phone cameras. Look, what we've got!

America's Next Top Model...

Under the sheets...

Horror Movie Poster??

Wala lang...Natuwa lang ako!

A cheating boyfriend can cause tension in any relationship. Everyone hopes their partnership is built on trust, but what happens when that bond is broken and you suspect your boyfriend is cheating? Here are a few signs:

1.SUSPICIOUS COMPUTER ACTIVITY (check for me!)


These days, it's easy to meet men in chat rooms, forums or on instant messenger. Have you seen a suspicious name in your IM window or an unknown chat site in your browser history? A little digging can go a long way. Be careful trying to be a super snooper, though, and give your man space. It's just as easy to meet friends online as it is love interests. Your partner may just be reaching out for other gay people to talk to.

2.SUDDEN CHANGE IN SCHEDULE

Some men may be spontaneous, but most of us keep a set schedule or standard routine in some form or another. This is especially true for day-to-day activities. Has your man's routine suddenly changed without you knowing why? Did his working hours increase or does he have a new gym schedule? Things often change in our lives. In turn, we decide to try and impress our bosses by working overtime or resolve that it's finally time to get into shape. But what raises suspicion is how these changes are communicated to you. Was the decision made without your input? Was there an attempt to include you? Are there any signs of progress?

3.EMOTIONAL DISTANCE (check ulit!)

It's normal for the intensity of your relationship to decrease after you've been together for a while. There may have been a time when you couldn't bare to leave each others' sight and now you both enjoy your time alone. This isn't a sign that he is cheating, only that the relationship is starting to settle into a loving and comfortable phase. Nonetheless, take note of any emotional distancing. Has he stopped listening or laughing? Does he seem distant or spacey, almost as if he's preoccupied? Take note if your partner is there physically, but not quite "there" mentally.

4.LESS TIME TOGETHER (dalawang check!)

Just as the intensity of a relationship dwindles slightly over time, so may the time you spend together. But spending less time with each other shouldn't be confused with spending no time at all. Don't react too swiftly. Who knows, his company may be ready to close on a huge deal and they need him around the clock. Or there may be some other legitimate circumstance that demands his attention. Many huge time commitments like these don't last for long periods of time and make sense. He may be working 14 hour days, but does he also leave home on weekends? Look for the unreasonable and unexplainable time commitments.

5.INSTINCT (check!)

Mom always said follow your instincts and this is a time when that motherly voice can come in handy. If your gut tells you that something is wrong or that some other guy has captured your man's attention, then go with it. But take caution with how far you follow these feelings. Ask yourself if they are legitimate concerns or if you yourself are lacking trust.

These tips aren't meant to turn your trusting relationship into a game of hide and go seek and there are always exceptions. Trust first, but don't ignore the warning signs. If there are just too many inconsistencies for comfort, then communicate them to your man directly. Don't let him hear of your suspicions from a friend. Also, try not to be accusatory. Simply tell him how his behavior makes you feel. He may be dealing with other issues that have nothing to do with cheating on you with another man.

What's this????

Laban kayo? This is so astig at it's gayest form!

If there's a male version of America's Next Top Model, this guy's a winner! panalo ang mga photos! fierce kung fierce! hahaha!

Name: Lu Chang/ Luke Chang
Chinese Name: 路畅
Country: BeiJing, China
Profession: Model
Height: 187cm
Measure: 100cm/73cm/95cm
Interest: Basketball
Music: R&B & Hip Hop

Very reminiscent of Yoanna House winning pic!

pang-fashion editorial!

angelic...

Hotness!!!

(pictures taken from thedailymodel.com)

It was my usual Monday until Mr. O invited me to go and watch a movie, I hesitated first because there are no interesting movies showing yet...sayang naman and pera, but Mr. O suggested we watch "I now pronounce you Chuck and Larry", a gay movie for the straight guys. At first glance of the movie poster, you'd think that it is another one of those comedies for straight guys coz' it stars King of Straight Guys Comedy, Mr. Adam Sandler and Hollywood It-girl, Jessica Biel. Well, for me it is really is a straight guys' movie, WHY? the jokes and the punchlines are super straight. It is funny in a straight guy's way...The super COOL thing is how this movie advocates GAY RIGHTS.

"I Now Pronounce You Chuck and Larry" provided a positive look on gay relationships and the better part of it is that it is marketed as a straight guys movie, so most of the people who would watch it are straight peeps. that's just fabulous! Actually when Mr. O and i watched the movie, most of the people we're watching with are straight couples. For me it is something really good, the movie makes gays look good to straight people (not that we're not good people, but it somehow breaks some stereotypes.)

Go see it guys. It's fun! (especially the gay kid!)

here's the plot summary:

Gay Pride March in the Philippines is so close to being extinct! It is actually not a march anymore, they call it “The Pride White Party”, I’m not really against the event concocted by different gay establishments in Malate or Makati to entice gay people to go to their place and have fun,  that’s all fine with me but where’s the Pride March?

I wish we can do the Pride March here like they do it in other countries.

In fucking broad daylight.(as in morning!)

Against prejudice and discrimination

Colorful and extravagant.

 Fabulous and fierce.

 Loud and Proud.

 All gay united.

No shame. All pride.

Task Force Pride Philippines?

                             Pa-girls VS. Pa-mhins??

Is Diversity synonymous to Division?

I just had a chat with one of my super pa-girl gay friend the other night, he was forever ranting about these pa-mhin gays and how they irritate him with their endless attempts to look or act as straight guys in the name of getting laid. While he was having his verbal diarrhea, I remember a super pa-mhin gay acquaintance also giving me his hate speech about these pa-girls gay and how they give GAY a bad name. Is the gay community secretly divided? Does the “rich-sosy” gays also hates the “jologs-get real” gays? Does the intellectual gay people view the “byukoneras” as a lesser  being? Are we secretly oppressing our own kind?

I was watching Sex and the city last night and a quote from Carrie Bradshaw caught my attention:

Carrie: Later that day I got to thinking about relationships. There are those that open you up to something new and exotic, those that are old and familiar, those that bring up lots of questions, those that bring you somewhere unexpected, those that bring you far from where you started, and those that bring you back. But the most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you find someone to love the you you love, well, that's just fabulous.

Absofuckinglutely!